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Women
Escape the Overwhelm Trap
Your alarm goes off early, but you’ve already been awake, running through your mental to-do list for the day. There’s no room for error, you think, as you gear up for another round of meetings, deadlines, and expectations. You move through your morning routine with precision, making sure everything is perfectly in place—your outfit, your coffee, your meticulously planned schedule. Yet, even with all this preparation, there’s a lingering doubt in the back of your mind: Am I doing enough?
As your day unfolds, you juggle back-to-back work obligations with personal responsibilities. The demands seem endless—emails flood in, phone calls interrupt your focus, and projects pile up faster than you can complete them. You push through, constantly holding yourself to an impossibly high standard. But no matter how much you accomplish, it never quite feels like enough. The satisfaction of success is fleeting, replaced by a nagging voice telling you to do more, be more.
At work, you may receive praise for your efforts, but instead of feeling proud, you catch yourself wondering if you really deserve it. Imposter syndrome has a way of sneaking in, making you second-guess your abilities, even though you’ve proven yourself time and time again. You stay late, pushing harder to prove your worth, knowing deep down you’re running on fumes.
As the day transitions into evening, you try to shift your attention to your personal life, but it’s hard to fully engage. Maybe your family or partner has been longing for your time, or perhaps you promised yourself that you’d take a moment for self-care. But by now, you’re too drained to give anyone, including yourself, what they deserve. You’ve overcommitted, again, because saying no feels impossible. The guilt of neglecting either your work or personal life weighs heavy on your mind. You wonder how others make it look so easy, even though you suspect they’re probably struggling, too.
You scroll through social media before bed and feel that familiar tension between societal expectations and your own aspirations. Should you have made different choices? Should you be doing more? You compare yourself to others and feel the pull of perfectionism yet again, even in moments when you should be winding down. You want to relax, to let go of the stress, but instead, you find yourself carrying it with you as you fall asleep, knowing tomorrow will bring more of the same.
This cycle can feel relentless, but it doesn’t have to stay this way. Therapy can offer you a space to pause, reflect, and make sense of these challenges. Together, we can explore what drives your perfectionism and uncover ways to set boundaries that protect your energy and time. We can work on quieting the self-doubt and building confidence in the abilities and accomplishments you already have. Therapy can help you reconnect with your needs and values, so you can approach life with greater balance and fulfillment. You don’t have to navigate this alone. There’s support available to help you create the space for growth, rest, and true satisfaction.